Advice, Bad Advice, and Damned Advice Don Allen Everyone gives advice, and almost everyone takes it now and then. Advice, though, is inherently incoherent, inconsistent, and inaccurate. Now and then, it can be critical. But even the stingiest, coldest, or most loving of us give it freely. A glossary follows but first consider a few examples. · When you take advice, are you substituting another’s thinking for your own? · Sometimes I wish I followed my own advice. But nooooo! I took someone else’s advice. Wrong. · When you give advice and someone takes it, then are you not somewhat responsible for outcomes? · There have been times I rejected good advice because I didn’t like who was giving it. · Companies call in consultants to give advice, but the consultants seldom know the fine points of the business they are advising. People call in psychologists for the same reasons. · Ministers and priests are always giving
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