Two Problems: The Hooks Younger people today face plenty of problems. We are not talking about the usual ones: drug dependency, job prospects, the looming impact of AI, marriage, buying a home, and the like. We are talking about two hooks that some people seem unable to live without. These hooks are embedded during childhood. The first is being hooked on praise . Some parents and teachers lavish praise on children for almost everything they do, whether or not the effort or result deserves it. Eventually, some children come to expect praise for even the slightest effort. The second is being hooked on help . Some children are rarely allowed to get stuck, struggle, or fret over a problem without someone rushing in to lend a hand. They, too, can come to expect help whenever they need it. The problem is that, in adult life, both are often in short supply. If nobody praises you for doing a good job, learn to recognize and appreciate your own accomplishments. If nobody comes to ...
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