It’s natural to think a note on memory is about
improving one’s memory, say tips or advice. All agree that having a poor memory
is undesirable. But today we consider the opposite. This note is about those men
and women gifted with excellent memory, or even beyond excellent.
Courtrooms are transfixed by memory-gifted
attorneys citing case after case in support of their clients. Students are
mesmerized by faculty that communicate like walking encyclopedias of information
with complete ease. World leaders invite memory-rich consultants to give
historical aspects to current problems. Yet, the at-home housewife can demolish
her husband in a dispute over the point of contention by recalling in minute
detail what happened last time or recalling past sins and errors. The boss who remembers
every mistake of every employee has an uncomfortable staff. As well, adults who
vividly remember only childhood punishments may have problems with authority.
So, is perfect memory a blessing? Consider. They
forget little, recalling instantly every transgression, insult, and even
gesture against them. Such perfect recall brings back as well the emotions of
the time with their original intensity. For them, every years’ past event is
but yesterday. In consequence, many cannot forgive or forget, essential parts of
human harmony. Memories cumulate, bringing with them an ever heavier burden, requiring
at times a complete break toward a new life.
Nonetheless, great memories are celebrated
everywhere, and rewards can be manifest. Many can manage their gift. Others
bear a lifetime of limitless, unwanted recall, a curse only to be released deep
into old age or beyond.
Offering mixed verdicts, religions often tell
us to forgive, while others command settling scores. Some suggest both. Indirectly,
religions recognize the memory gift, as a singular bane and beauty of the mind.
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